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Tip
# 1
Make it Old, Solid & Bold
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Some parents may
want to buy a brand new car for their teen's first vehicle,
however, it may not be the best vehicle to learn in. If you
must buy your teen a car, here are some tips...
- OLD, LARGE
and SOLID
- Think classic
station wagon or full-size sedan with a small engine
- Check the
vehicle's history to assure that it's a safe and reliable
Parent's Tip: "Old, large and
solid" may not be the words your teenager
wants to hear, but they'll like them better
than "take the bus."
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Shocking Stats
In the last decade, over 68,000 teens have died in car crashes.
Motor vehicle crashes are the leading cause of death for American teenagers.
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Tip #2
Be a Winning Coach. Motivate Your Young Driver
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To be a successful
teacher, you need to understand a few things about motivating
a student during driving sessions...
- Check frequently
to ensure that your teen understands
- Keep things
moving by giving your instructions in real time
- Point things
out as they happen
- Act more
as the co-pilot than taskmaster
- Keep an eye
on the road ahead of you at all times
Parent's Tip: Practice these tips
in every driving session. And leave the whistle
at home, coach!
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Shocking Stats
Car crashes are the #1 cause of death for 16-year olds.
Taking on the role of driving coach and sharing years of experience
may save your child's life.
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Tip #3:
Less is More - The Potential Catastrophe of Passengers
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Other teens in
the car is one of the greatest risks...
- Friends lead
to excitement, distractions and peer pressure
- Fatal crashes
with teen drivers are more likely to involve passengers
- Teens are
less likely to wear seat belts when driving with other
teens
Parent's Tip: Teens plus teens in
a car equals disaster. Just say "no" to
passengers for the first year.
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Shocking Stats
Teens are involved in three times as many fatal crashes as other drivers.
65% of all teen passenger deaths occur when another teen is driving.
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Tip #4:
Keep Your Hands on the Wheel to Avoid Distractions
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There are all kinds
of distractions that can take our eyes off the road. Here's
a way to help maintain your attention:
- Keep both
hands on the wheel while driving
- Don't talk
on the phone without a hands-free accessory
- Wait 'til
the next stoplight to change that CD
- Don't drive
with passengers until you are more experienced
Parent's Tip: Don't remind your teen
of all the possible distractions. Instead,
enforce keeping your hands on the wheel and
you'll avoid most of the distractions that
cause serious crashes.
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Shocking Stats
At 35 mph, a 2 second lapse in attention means you've traveled 100
feet without looking!
Teens are much more likely to be distracted when traveling with other
teens.
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Tip #5:
Kissing the Windshield: Why Teens Don't Buckle Up
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Most teens grew
up riding in car seats, but today they aren't buckling up.
So what gets young drivers and passengers to buckle up?
- Linking belt
use to graduated driving privileges
- Making your
teen pay any fines that they incur
- Teaching
by example - always wear your seatbelt
- Exercising
your parental authority
Parent's Tip: Tell your kids to buckle up or walk. No negotiation.
When they have kids, they'll understand!
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Shocking Stats
Teens have the lowest seat belt use rate of all drivers.
This rate becomes worse when there are other teens in the car.
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Tip #6:
Defensive Driving for Teens
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The first year
of driving is a high-risk period especially for beginners
starting at age 16. Inexperience, nervousness and lack
of practical skills can lead to bad decisions behind the
wheel. Create a home graduated licensing program with your
licensed teen:
- Continue
to ride along and coach your teen even after they obtain
a license.
- Set a driving
curfew (morning and night) to limit 'after dark' driving.
Monitor and limit your teens driving during inclement weather.
Restrict the number of passengers when your teen is driving.
Talk to your teen - find out what situations or techniques he/she has
trouble with, then take them to a low-traffic location and have them
practice with you in the car.
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Shocking Stats
During the first year of licensed driving, 1-in-5 male and about 1-in-10
female 16-year old drivers will have a crash.
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Tip
#7:
Boys vs. Girls
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More and more female
drivers are taking to the roads as aggressively as males
and paying a price for their risky behavior. Parents must
teach both sons and daughters...
- This is not
a competition either of them wants to win
Parent's Tip: "Anything you can do I can do better" is a
phrase kids hear a lot growing up. Perhaps a better way to word that
phrase should be "Anything you can do I can do safer."
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Shocking Stats
Males are more than twice as likely to have serious crashes as females.
But while the crash total for males has been declining over the
past 20 years, the total for females has been rising.
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Tip #8:
Learner's Permit Required?
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States with the
most lenient licensing procedures have the highest crash
rates for teens. Whether your state has a strict licensing
procedure or not, you should always:
- Set your
own waiting period for your teen
- Pursue a
driving instruction program outside the school
- Log plenty
of practice time with your teen before letting him
or her take the driver's exam
Parent's Tip: State laws and instruction
are great ways to get your teen started on
the road to safe driving, but what you do
with and for your teen makes the most difference.
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Shocking Stats
Only 32 states require a learner's permit before a driver's license.
Only 15 of those 32 require the permits to be held for a minimum length
of time.
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Tip #9:
Parent-Teen Driving Agreement
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To help your teen
understand, take the time to review the issues and responsibilities
associated with driving and consider making a Parent-Teen
Driving Agreement using the outline below as a guide...
- Issue - Curfew
- Responsibility/Rule
- Weekday evening curfew of 10 pm and a weekend evening
curfew of midnight
- Agreement
- Coming home after the curfew will result in the curfew
being set one hour earlier for one week
Parent's Tip: Treat your teen with
the same respect by allowing them some control
over the rules of driving.
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Quick Tip
Don't forget: As the parent, you are the boss! Driving is a privilege-especially
for teens. The parent giveth and the parent taketh away.
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Tip #10:
We all need our space. The 3 second rule
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Allowing enough
space between you and other cars on the road allows for time
to react in case of an emergency.
- As the car
in front of you passes a fixed point like a sign, tree
or building, count "one thousand one, one thousand
two, one thousand three". If you reach the designated
point before three, slow down.
- Increase
your distance by one for each bad driving condition.
For rain and fog you would add two seconds.
- Make sure
you drive in the middle of the lane to allow space
on the side of the car.
- If the driver
behind you is too close, change lanes and let them
pass.
Parent's Tip: Let your teen know
that adding additional space between cars
will not slow down their travel time any
more than a few minutes. Better to arrive
a few minutes late than not at all!
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Quick Tip
Perception is about one second and time to react is about three-fourths
of a second in ideal conditions.
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Tip #11:
Making Time - Make it Count
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Driving requires
commitment and discipline - from both the student and the
coach. The best way to demonstrate these traits is to establish
a practice schedule and stick to it.
- Commit to
the 100 hours of supervised instruction (100 hours
is only 2 hours/week for a year, or 4 hours/week for
6 months)
- Make it routine--set
aside a specific day and time for driving practice
(Put it in your day-planner if you have to; this is
an appointment for safety)
- Go with the
flow--when the lessons require driving at night or
in bad weather, make adjustments
Don't cancel, reschedule--when you have to work late or something else
unexpected comes up, don't cancel your driving date, reschedule it.
Parent's
Tip: Demonstrate to your child that you are making
this a firm commitment to their safety
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Quick Tip
Teaching Tip: Develop a practice schedule with your teen.
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Tip #12:
Tapping the Wall
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Want to instill
some respect in a young driver for the forces that can be
unleashed in a crash? Here's a harmless way to do it - just
be careful...
- Make sure
your vehicle doesn't have a fragile plastic license
plate frame positioned in front of the bumper (If you
have any doubts about the idea, or are worried about
damage, don't try it. Or, you drive.)
- You or your
teen pull into a parking space that abuts a solid concrete
wall
- Stop, and
then move forward slowly until the vehicle's front
bumper contacts with the wall. Even at one mile an
hour, the sensation will send a shiver through both
of you
Parent's Tip: Let them feel the shock of even the slightest bump; it
will leave an imprint on your teen that will make them a safer driver.
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Quick Tip
Teaching Tip: Have your teen tap the wall with the bumper of your car!
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Tip #13:
Mirror, Mirror on the Car
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Tunnel vision and
blind spots can be a hazard to any driver but are particularly
difficult for a new driver. Teach your teen how to minimize
both...
For
the driver side mirror:
- Have your
teen roll up the window
- Press his
or her head against the glass
- Then adjust
the mirror so that they can just see the edge of the
car
For the passenger side mirror:
- Have your
teen place their head in the center of the car (directly
behind the inside mirror mount)
- Adjust the
outside mirror so that they can just see the edge of
the car.
- This is necessary
even with convex (curved) mirrors where the image is
distorted a little
Parent's Tip: Repeat that routine
every time you and your teen begin a lesson
to make blind spots virtually disappear.
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Quick Tip
Teaching Tip: Regular and proper use of mirrors is hard to learn but
the pay off is big.
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Tip #14:
Driving Practice -- The Ultimate Video Game
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If your teen can
spend 10 hours getting hand-cramps from the latest video
game, he or she can spend ten sessions meandering through
your local countryside or back roads, to develop driving
hand-eye coordination. Anytime visibility decreases, have
your teen:
- Slow down
- Access the
situation
- If visibility
is only 100 feet ahead, you should be doing no more
than 35 MPH. If it's at 50 feet, it's 25 MPH, and so
on.
Parent's Tip: Build up to an hour or more per session. It will help
your teen's mind and body become more accustomed to driving and build
more confidence.
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Quick Tip
Teaching Tip: Ten sessions driving is time well spent.
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Tip #15:
Who's Afraid of the Big, Bad Road?
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When you read,
you begin with ABC. When you teach your teen to drive, begin
with A Big Clear parking lot. A large, unoccupied parking
lot can be found in a myriad of places:
- An office
building or complex after hours
- A shopping
mall early in the morning
- A place of
worship any weekday
- A high school
parking lot on weekends
Parent's Tip: Try your own office parking lot after work. These lots
offer plenty of space, and as a bonus, they probably have marked, defined
areas to practice maneuverability techniques.
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Quick Tip
Teaching Tip: Make it as simple at A,B,C. A Big, Clear parking lot.
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